Throwback Thursday: Niggas Ain't Shit - A Males Response

You are always telling your girlfriends this nonsense about how "niggas aint shit"
Well... The answer to this is simple...how about you stop dating these "aint shit niggas"

But have you ever sat down and actually reflected on why you sulk and complain about how
you're about to be "on to the next one",
because the current one you have...is just like your last one
and how all of them are just like your past ones, and no one can be "just like your best one"...but your still single?

Maybe it is because you place your standards a little too high,
You want what every body else wants you to have, not seeing past the physical facades
Looking for that swan... but your the ugly duckling
Not by physical beauty, but by mental grace
And its a disgrace how you put every dude in the same category, chastise them but yet you maintain the same criteria as you are looking in the same damn place,
when in reality the one that can and will treat you right and yearns for your embrace...
.is actually right in front of your face but you are so blinded that your tunnel vision sees past the friend zone
into the eyes of those that dont want to talk but wants to take you to the crib to bone, leaving you confused the next morning as you leave their home

Or maybe it is because there may be something about YOU that make dudes want to not deal with you for too long.
Its funny how you always play the victim, while spitting the same symptoms of how you became single, but not once have you said what you did.
We're not calling you liars, but we just find it funny how EVERYTIME you're pronounced single its because of what he did, and not what you did, or didn't do.
Or you cannot click with a dude on a philosophical level, not questioning your intelligence but if we mention something of substance as you mention Bad Girls Club, Steve J and all that shit thats irrelevant, no matter how bad you look its a turn off..which leads to us tolerating you for a few then getting turned off.

Or maybe its because you let your last relationship dictate your next.
How you won't take a chance because "you heard it all before" or a situation reminds you of your past vex
Like your guy liking a fb status, a retweet or even an 8pm text.
So you put up a shield and EVERY dude that approaches you, you start to let him get close,
but then you push them away, and remain unsure because you feel a snake strikes best
when ones guard is down.

Well sweetheart you never know what's in store until you take your hand off the e-brake and put yourself in cruise control,
but your still so mystified and misty eyed because your real eyes couldn't realize those real lies and you are STILL recovering from the hurt he placed on you
that we can never win.

Of course we know that you have been
hurt in the past,
But that does not mean you can put us on blast by establishing your opinion too fast,
because you feel that ALL men must suffer because of what a FEW men have done to you.
Because I REFUSE to pay for his mistakes.
And you letting your past affect your futures fate,
While the one that you are destined for will have to wait to partake
because your so busy looking for "Mr. Right, and not "Mr. Right Now",
which explains how your single, not because you choose to be,
but because you WANT to be because if you cannot find tranquility within yourself,
it is useless to seek it elsewhere.

So yea, you keep believing that "niggas aint shit"
All this attitude is going to do
Is turn the good ones away from you.
You do realize that the more you say these 3 words, we take 3 steps back,because we refuse to be attacked for trying to defend ourselves for something that we didn't do
When with all due respect, it might not be these "aint shit niggas" that is keeping you single
the problem might actually be....you